Sunday, June 10, 2012

FAMILY PRIORITY


FAMILY PRIORITY

Learn Deuteronomy 6:5, 7 - Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.... Impress these commandments on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

Main Idea
The second core value of our series Christian to the Core is “Family Priority”. Being christian to the core means you recognize the most important relationships in your life are with your family, and the most important work that you will ever do is within your family. God desires for you to be a blessing within your family. Family is where we first learn the skill of relation to others, where we learn to love and receive love, to listen, and to express our needs. God desires for the family to be a trusting and secure environment. In the family, we learn about authority, and hopefully, we learn healthy lessons about the consequences of disregarding that authority. God designs the family to be the place where babies are born and children are nurture.

Know What
God looks for men and women who are convinced that the family is God’s building block for society and give their family priority in their lives.

So What
The Lord gives you a family so you an lean how to love him and others. As we grow in our ability to relate to those closest to us, we are able to take those skills into the broader community.

Now What
This week, identify the strengths and weakness of your relationships within your family. What can you do today to begin to work on those weakness?

Discuss…
1.     Think about the family as a gift, a place of service, and a responsibility.

2.     Analyze how common is “God-talk” in your home.

3.     Evaluate your commitment to your family.

4.     Evaluate your spiritual life as a family.

5.     Name 2-3 blessings for every specific member of your direct family.

Next Steps…
This week, discuss with your spouse and/or other families members where your family is strongest and where is weakest. Try to create a moment you and your family or family member will cherish for the rest of your lives. Remember to love those that god gives us to love. 

Let’s pray… Dear God, you plan placed us in families. This act of grace reveals your wisdom. In families we learn to love. Even though some families are broken, your perfect will is wholeness. You have provided for us grace, mercy and forgiveness to restore and heal. For that which we have received from our families, we give you thanks. Help us by your grace to love our families as you have loved us. And as you give yourself to us, may we also give ourselves to our families so that they too, may learn how to love. In Jesus name, Amen.