FAMILY PRIORITY
Learn Deuteronomy 6:5, 7 - Love the Lord your God with all your
heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.... Impress these
commandments on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when
you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
Main Idea
The
second core value of our series Christian to the Core is “Family Priority”.
Being christian to the core means you recognize the most important relationships
in your life are with your family, and the most important work that you will
ever do is within your family. God desires for you to be a blessing within your
family. Family is where we first learn the skill of relation to others, where
we learn to love and receive love, to listen, and to express our needs. God
desires for the family to be a trusting and secure environment. In the family,
we learn about authority, and hopefully, we learn healthy lessons about the
consequences of disregarding that authority. God designs the family to be the
place where babies are born and children are nurture.
Know What
God
looks for men and women who are convinced that the family is God’s building
block for society and give their family priority in their lives.
So What
The
Lord gives you a family so you an lean how to love him and others. As we grow
in our ability to relate to those closest to us, we are able to take those
skills into the broader community.
Now What
This
week, identify the strengths and weakness of your relationships within your
family. What can you do today to begin to work on those weakness?
Discuss…
1.
Think
about the family as a gift, a place of service, and a responsibility.
2.
Analyze
how common is “God-talk” in your home.
3.
Evaluate
your commitment to your family.
4.
Evaluate
your spiritual life as a family.
5.
Name
2-3 blessings for every specific member of your direct family.
Next Steps…
This
week, discuss with your spouse and/or other families members where your family
is strongest and where is weakest. Try to create a moment you and your family
or family member will cherish for the rest of your lives. Remember to love
those that god gives us to love.
Let’s pray… Dear God, you plan placed us in families.
This act of grace reveals your wisdom. In families we learn to love. Even
though some families are broken, your perfect will is wholeness. You have
provided for us grace, mercy and forgiveness to restore and heal. For that
which we have received from our families, we give you thanks. Help us by your
grace to love our families as you have loved us. And as you give yourself to
us, may we also give ourselves to our families so that they too, may learn how
to love. In Jesus name, Amen.